Activism
Listening Care: Serenity House Oakland Offers Domestic Violence Victims Treatment with Solutions
Serenity House’s counseling component provides a safe and confidential environment where survivors can express their feelings and thoughts. The goal, the organization says, is to help them process the traumatic memories so they can move on, says Gray. And case management assists survivors in creating a safety plan, in part, by connecting them to community resources, such as legal assistance, benefits advocacy, employment service, medical services and housing assistance.
Charlene Muhammad | Special to the Oakland Post
Problems born out of the trauma and cruelty of domestic violence affect families of all backgrounds in Alameda County.
Often the most tragic stories make news headlines, horrifying us, but rarely do we hear about solutions — or resolutions.
Founded by an African American Oakland resident in 2009, Johnnia Faye Davis, Serenity House Oakland is an example of a community-focused organization that centers its services around solutions that can bring about meaningful change in their victims’ lives.
“Recognize signs of abuse. Create a safety plan,” said Sherrol Gray, associate executive director of Serenity House, who encourages the victims they serve to be pro-active about their care, counseling, and recovery.
According to Gray, Serenity House is a residential treatment program for women suffering from addiction and other forms of trauma or abuse. The program offers women the choice to live in their recovery residence or the ability to receive the full scope of their day program services.
Serenity House’s groups include Relapse Prevention, Anger Management, Freedom from Domestic Violence, Parenting, Character Building and Battlefield of the Mind.
Gray recommends survivors become educated, as part of solutions people can apply to their daily lives. One way to escape an abusive situation is to store names of individuals who may be contacted in crisis situations. She encourages survivors to practice self-care and talk about what is happening with someone they trust.
But it is critical to avoid isolating victims, she stated.
Part of Serenity House’s services include a safe shelter program for victims of domestic violence. It provides emergency hotel rooms, wraparound support, resources, and connections to housing and employment for women and children who are fleeing domestic violence.
According to Serenity House, over 74 % of the women who have completed a nine-month stay there have been successful in staying clean and sober and have transformed their lives. In addition, between April and December of 2020, over 40 women and their children received the emergency benefits that their shelters offer and 35 have been connected to housing and employment.
Gray shed further light on some solutions that Serenity House is implementing to help prevent domestic violence, such as safe environments for survivors.
“Most survivors tend to remain in abusive relationships due to lack of finances or a safe place to go. Therefore, we assist survivors with short term hotel vouchers or referrals to safe shelters and transitional housing,” said Gray. “Lastly, but most important, a chance to connect with others who have been in similar situations and reduce feelings of isolation brought on by the abuser.”
Serenity House also assists with support groups that provide survivors with education to help them recognize abuse, learn effective communication skills and develop healthy relationships, according to Gray.
Serenity House’s counseling component provides a safe and confidential environment where survivors can express their feelings and thoughts. The goal, the organization says, is to help them process the traumatic memories so they can move on, says Gray. And case management assists survivors in creating a safety plan, in part, by connecting them to community resources, such as legal assistance, benefits advocacy, employment service, medical services and housing assistance.
In the increasingly difficult time that we are living in due to COVID-19 and a rise in crime, services such as the recovery programs that Serenity House Oakland offers are just what the Oakland and Bay Area community need to stay on its feet, advocates say.
Family members may add to the many solutions individuals can implement in their everyday lives,” Gray pointed out. “Be supportive and encouraging. Help survivors feel empowered to leave or make the decision to leave. Avoid being judgmental or critical.”
Most of all, Gray insists, providing solutions-focused care requires patience, empathy and encouragement.
“Survivors will refrain from talking to anyone, if felt judged. Don’t criticize the abuser. Do not pressure survivors to leave. Continue to support survivors after they have left the relationship. Offer counseling and/or support groups,” she added.
Activism
OP-ED: AB 1349 Puts Corporate Power Over Community
Since Ticketmaster and Live Nation merged in 2010, ticket prices have jumped more than 150 percent. Activities that once fit a family’s budget now take significant disposable income that most working families simply don’t have. The problem is compounded by a system that has tilted access toward the wealthy and white-collar workers. If you have a fancy credit card, you get “presale access,” and if you work in an office instead of a warehouse, you might be able to wait in an online queue to buy a ticket. Access now means privilege.
By Bishop Joseph Simmons, Senior Pastor, Greater St. Paul Baptist Church, Oakland
As a pastor, I believe in the power that a sense of community can have on improving people’s lives. Live events are one of the few places where people from different backgrounds and ages can share the same space and experience – where construction workers sit next to lawyers at a concert, and teenagers enjoy a basketball game with their grandparents. Yet, over the past decade, I’ve witnessed these experiences – the concerts, games, and cultural events where we gather – become increasingly unaffordable, and it is a shame.
These moments of connection matter as they form part of the fabric that holds communities together. But that fabric is fraying because of Ticketmaster/Live Nation’s unchecked control over access to live events. Unfortunately, AB 1349 would only further entrench their corporate power over our spaces.
Since Ticketmaster and Live Nation merged in 2010, ticket prices have jumped more than 150 percent. Activities that once fit a family’s budget now take significant disposable income that most working families simply don’t have. The problem is compounded by a system that has tilted access toward the wealthy and white-collar workers. If you have a fancy credit card, you get “presale access,” and if you work in an office instead of a warehouse, you might be able to wait in an online queue to buy a ticket. Access now means privilege.
Power over live events is concentrated in a single corporate entity, and this regime operates without transparency or accountability – much like a dictator. Ticketmaster controls 80 percent of first-sale tickets and nearly a third of resale tickets, but they still want more. More power, more control for Ticketmaster means higher prices and less access for consumers. It’s the agenda they are pushing nationally, with the help of former Trump political operatives, who are quietly trying to undo the antitrust lawsuit launched against Ticketmaster/Live Nation under President Biden’s DOJ.
That’s why I’m deeply concerned about AB 1349 in its current form. Rather than reining in Ticketmaster’s power, the bill risks strengthening it, aligning with Trump. AB 1349 gives Ticketmaster the ability to control a consumer’s ticket forever by granting Ticketmaster’s regime new powers in state law to prevent consumers from reselling or giving away their tickets. It also creates new pathways for Ticketmaster to discriminate and retaliate against consumers who choose to shop around for the best service and fees on resale platforms that aren’t yet controlled by Ticketmaster. These provisions are anti-consumer and anti-democratic.
California has an opportunity to stand with consumers, to demand transparency, and to restore genuine competition in this industry. But that requires legislation developed with input from the community and faith leaders, not proposals backed by the very company causing the harm.
Will our laws reflect fairness, inclusion, and accountability? Or will we let corporate interests tighten their grip on spaces that should belong to everyone? I, for one, support the former and encourage the California Legislature to reject AB 1349 outright or amend it to remove any provisions that expand Ticketmaster’s control. I also urge community members to contact their representatives and advocate for accessible, inclusive live events for all Californians. Let’s work together to ensure these gathering spaces remain open and welcoming to everyone, regardless of income or background.
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Oakland Post: Week of December 31, 2025 – January 6, 2026
The printed Weekly Edition of the Oakland Post: Week of – December 31, 2025 – January 6, 2026
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Big God Ministry Gives Away Toys in Marin City
Pastor Hall also gave a message of encouragement to the crowd, thanking Jesus for the “best year of their lives.” He asked each of the children what they wanted to be when they grow up.
By Godfrey Lee
Big God Ministries, pastored by David Hall, gave toys to the children in Marin City on Monday, Dec. 15, on the lawn near the corner of Drake Avenue and Donahue Street.
Pastor Hall also gave a message of encouragement to the crowd, thanking Jesus for the “best year of their lives.” He asked each of the children what they wanted to be when they grew up.
Around 75 parents and children were there to receive the presents, which consisted mainly of Gideon Bibles, Cat in the Hat pillows, Barbie dolls, Tonka trucks, and Lego building sets.
A half dozen volunteers from the Big God Ministry, including Donnie Roary, helped to set up the tables for the toy giveaway. The worship music was sung by Ruby Friedman, Keri Carpenter, and Jake Monaghan, who also played the accordion.
Big God Ministries meets on Sundays at 10 a.m. at the Mill Valley Community Center, 180 Camino Alto, Mill Valley, CA Their phone number is (415) 797-2567.
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