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By Shawndi Johnson| Dads Matter

The need to provide financially for a new family is the biggest roadblock when encouraging low-income or underserved fathers to take paternity leave after the birth or adoption of a child. I experienced that when I had my first child. I wanted to take time off to be with him but I hadn’t quite figured out our finances ahead of time. That didn’t mean I wasn’t there for him, but I was not in a financial position to take time off work and school during that first year with our son.

As fathers, the stereotype that many of us have to live up to is that of the provider. Not even Father’s Day provides a respite from that responsibility. As the program manager of Children’s Bureau’s “Dads Matter” in Orange County, I work with fathers and fathers-to-be on what responsible fatherhood looks like and how to plan ahead to fulfill and sustain the parenting role they envision for themselves.

We are fortunate here in California because fathers have access to California’s Paid Family Leave (PFL) program, which offers the highest wage replacement rate in the country. As of 2018, California PFL offers eligible Californians up to 70 percent of their pay during leave—an increase from the 55 percent the program previously offered.

For me, being a father had always been what I looked forward to in my adult life. When I was in high school and people asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, I always said “I want to be a father, I want to have a family.” Even with the knowledge that fatherhood was on the horizon, I didn’t know what was required of me and my family in planning for our second child, a daughter, and for parental leave to be with her.

Through working at Dads Matter, I have learned how important it is for dads to be involved with their kids from the beginning. When a father is present at the beginning of their child’s life, his rate of long-term involvement with that child increases. Moreover, the beginning of a child’s life through their second birthday involves more learning than any other period in a person’s life—and having a father present during this crucial developmental time is pivotal to a child’s potential for future developmental success.

That being said, a lack of basic financial literacy plagues underserved communities, along with extreme financial stress. Given the pressure men face to provide financially for a family, Children’s Bureau’s mission, which is to protect vulnerable children through prevention, treatment and advocacy, includes having healthy discussions about what it means to be an involved father and the financial responsibilities associated with it.

One of the aspects of California PFL that makes it more accessible for a wide-range of Californians is that the 6-weeks of benefits offered can be split up over a 12-month period. This is especially helpful for fathers who can only take a couple of weeks off from work at a time, or who find it useful to switch off taking care of a newborn with their spouse or family member.

Further, it is important to know PFL is not a government assistance program. The program’s benefits are paid for by California employees themselves through mandatory paycheck deductions that go into the State Disability Insurance program (noted as “CASDI” on paystubs), which means this is money fathers should take– because when it comes down to it, it is their money already.

Having children is the hardest job you will ever love, and it’s important to start thinking about your paid leave options ahead of time. I have learned more about myself through raising my kids than anything else I have ever done and I believe there is no substitute for time spent with them. I encourage every father to explore ways in which the PFL program can work for them — their future, their child’s future, and the future of our communities.

To learn more about California PFL, visit CaliforniaPaidFamilyLeave.com.

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U.S. House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries Speaks on Democracy at Commonwealth Club

Based on his first speech as House minority leader, “The ABCs of Democracy” by Grand Central Publishing is an illustrated children’s book for people of all ages. Each letter contrasts what democracy is and isn’t, as in: “American Values over Autocracy”, “Benevolence over Bigotry” and “The Constitution over the Cult.”

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: House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries at the Commonwealth Club World Affairs Council on Dec. 2. Photo by Johnnie Burrell. Book cover: "The ABCs of Democracy" by Hakeem Jeffries.
: House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries at the Commonwealth Club World Affairs Council on Dec. 2. Photo by Johnnie Burrell. Book cover: "The ABCs of Democracy" by Hakeem Jeffries.

By Linda Parker Pennington
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House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries addressed an enthusiastic overflow audience on Monday at San Francisco’s Commonwealth Club, launching his first book, “The ABCs of Democracy.”

Based on his first speech as House minority leader, “The ABCs of Democracy” by Grand Central Publishing is an illustrated children’s book for people of all ages.

Each letter contrasts what democracy is and isn’t, as in: “American Values over Autocracy”, “Benevolence over Bigotry” and “The Constitution over the Cult.”

Less than a month after the election that will return Donald Trump to the White House, Rep. Jeffries also gave a sobering assessment of what the Democrats learned.

“Our message just wasn’t connecting with the real struggles of the American people,” Jeffries said. “The party in power is the one that will always pay the price.”

On dealing with Trump, Jeffries warned, “We can’t fall into the trap of being outraged every day at what Trump does. That’s just part of his strategy. Remaining calm in the face of turmoil is a choice.”

He pointed out that the razor-thin margin that Republicans now hold in the House is the lowest since the Civil War.

Asked what the public can do, Jeffries spoke about the importance of being “appropriately engaged. Democracy is not on autopilot. It takes a citizenry to hold politicians accountable and a new generation of young people to come forward and serve in public office.”

With a Republican-led White House, Senate, House and Supreme Court, Democrats must “work to find bi-partisan common ground and push back against far-right extremism.”

He also described how he is shaping his own leadership style while his mentor, Speaker-Emeritus Nancy Pelosi, continues to represent San Francisco in Congress. “She says she is not hanging around to be like the mother-in-law in the kitchen, saying ‘my son likes his spaghetti sauce this way, not that way.’”

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MacArthur Fellow Dorothy Roberts’ Advocates Restructure of Child Welfare System

Roberts’s early work focused on Black women’s reproductive rights and their fight for reproductive justice. In “Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty 1997)”, she analyzes historical and contemporary policies and practices that denied agency to Black women and sought to control their childbearing—from forced procreation during slavery, to coercive sterilization and welfare reform—and advocates for an expanded understanding of reproductive freedom.

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Dorothy Roberts. Photo courtesy of the John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Foundation.
Dorothy Roberts. Photo courtesy of the John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Foundation.

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When grants were announced Oct. 1, it was noted that eight of the 22 MacArthur Fellows were African American. Among the recipients of the so-called ‘genius grants’ are scholars, visual and media artists a poet/writer, historian, and dancer/choreographer who each receive $800,000 over a five-year period to spend as they see fit.

 Their names are Ruha Benjamin, Jericho Brown, Tony Cokes, Jennifer L. Morgan, Ebony G. Patterson, Shamel Pitts, Jason Reynolds, and Dorothy Roberts. This is the eighth and last in the series highlighting the Black awardees. The report below on Dorothy Roberts is excerpted from the MacArthur Fellows web site.

A graduate of Yale University with a law degree from Harvard, Dorothy Roberts is a legal scholar and public policy researcher exposing racial inequities embedded within health and social service systems.

Sine 2012, she has been a professor of Law and Sociology, and on the faculty in the department of Africana Studies at the University of Pennsylvania.

Roberts’s work encompasses reproductive health, bioethics, and child welfare. She sheds light on systemic inequities, amplifies the voices of those directly affected, and boldly calls for wholesale transformation of existing systems.

Roberts’s early work focused on Black women’s reproductive rights and their fight for reproductive justice. In “Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty 1997)”, she analyzes historical and contemporary policies and practices that denied agency to Black women and sought to control their childbearing—from forced procreation during slavery, to coercive sterilization and welfare reform—and advocates for an expanded understanding of reproductive freedom.

This work prompted Roberts to examine the treatment of children of color in the U.S. child welfare system.

After nearly two decades of research and advocacy work alongside parents, social workers, family defense lawyers, and organizations, Roberts has concluded that the current child welfare system is in fact a system of family policing with alarmingly unequal practices and outcomes. Her 2001 book, “Shattered Bonds: The Color of Child Welfare,” details the outsized role that race and class play in determining who is subject to state intervention and the results of those interventions.

Through interviews with Chicago mothers who had interacted with Child Protective Services (CPS), Roberts shows that institutions regularly punish the effects of poverty as neglect.

CPS disproportionately investigates Black and Indigenous families, especially if they are low-income, and children from these families are much more likely than white children to be removed from their families after CPS referral.

In “Torn Apart: How the Child Welfare System Destroys Black Families—and How Abolition Can Build a Safer World (2022),” Roberts traces the historical, cultural, and political forces driving the racial and class imbalance in child welfare interventions.

These include stereotypes about Black parents as negligent, devaluation of Black family bonds, and stigmatization of parenting practices that fall outside a narrow set of norms.

She also shows that blaming marginalized individuals for structural problems, while ignoring the historical roots of economic and social inequality, fails families and communities.

Roberts argues that the engrained oppressive features of the current system render it beyond repair. She calls for creating an entirely new approach focused on supporting families rather than punishing them.

Her support for dismantling the current child welfare system is unsettling to some. Still, her provocation inspires many to think more critically about its poor track record and harmful design.

By uncovering the complex forces underlying social systems and institutions, and uplifting the experiences of people caught up in them, Roberts creates opportunities to imagine and build more equitable and responsive ways to ensure child and family safety.

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