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For those of you who think we live in a world of equality let me explain why we must have “The Talk” with our African American youth.

 

 

Even though The Talk is a painstaking ordeal for us to explain the art and facts of survival to our children, especially our boys, we must teach them how they must conduct themselves at all times when they leave the confines of their homes.

 

The facts speak loudly and clearly about encounters with various elements of law enforcement. Therefore, the discussion must emphasize how they respond to the police could determine if they will return home safely.

 

When talking to family members, loved ones and friends, you should make it very clear that they should comply with the police and not give them any excuse to execute them for some frivolous asinine reason.

 

It is very important that you explain that not all of the police have ill intent, but they should not inflame or agitate the situation in any manner regardless of the reason for a stop by an officer.

 

It matters not what the reason is for their interaction with the police, what matters is whether you want to return home intact, not in a coroner’s van or an ambulance.

 

The Talk must also stress that things could go bad at any moment, especially if the stop is just a pretext for a more sinister reason, because boys must be counseled to not allow the police to get them to become emotional or caught up in a display of feelings.

 

The Talk must include the warning that “as right as you may be, it is of no importance,” because the most relevant fact is that you don’t lose your life and become yet another victim caught in the cross hairs of police criminality and abuse.

 

In light of the most recent nationally occurring events involving police officers’ use of force, The Talk should remind our youth that police departments are nervous, fearful, on a high alert and likely won’t hesitate to act without thought.

 

These acts of violence are tragic across the board, and we should not wish death upon anyone whether they be our men in blue or our people of color.

 

We have to be smart and not feed the negative public talk that leads to more death and pain.

 

The sooner that we talk to our God and pray and then have The Talk, then the sooner we can prevent our vulnerable youth, especially African-American boys, from becoming prey to those who misuse their authority.

 

So, have The Talk soon and be as explicit as possible.

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COMMENTARY: PEN Oakland Entices: When the News is Bad, Try Poetry

Strongman politics is not for the weak. Here in the U.S., Donald Trump is testing how strongman politics could work in the world’s model democracy.

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By Emil Guillermo

As the world falls apart, you need more poetry in your life.

I was convinced on Tuesday when a weak and unpopular president of South Korea — a free nation U.S. ally — tried to save himself by declaring martial law.

Was it a stunt? Maybe. But indicative of the South Korean president’s weakness, almost immediately, the parliament there voted down his declaration.

The takeaway: in politics, nothing quite works like it used to.

Strongman politics is not for the weak. Here in the U.S., Donald Trump is testing how strongman politics could work in the world’s model democracy.

Right now, we need more than a prayer.

NEWS ANTIDOTE? LITERATURE

As we prepare for another Trump administration, my advice: Take a deep breath, and read more poetry, essays and novels.

From “Poetry, Essays and Novels,” the acronym PEN is derived.

Which ones to read?

Register (tickets are limited) to join Tennessee Reed and myself as we host PEN OAKLAND’s award ceremony this Saturday on Zoom, in association with the Oakland Public Library.

Find out about what’s worth a read from local artists and writers like Cheryl Fabio, Jack Foley, Maw Shein Win, and Lucille Lang Day.

Hear from award winning writers like Henry Threadgill, Brent Hayes Edwards and Airea D. Matthews.

PEN Oakland is the local branch of the national PEN. Co-founded by the renowned Oakland writer, playwright, poet and novelist Ishmael Reed, Oakland PEN is special because it is a leader in fighting to include multicultural voices.

Reed is still writing. So is his wife Carla Blank, whose title essay in the new book, “A  Jew in  Ramallah, And Other Essays, (Baraka Books), provides an artist’s perspective on the conflict in Gaza.

Of all Reed’s work, it’s his poetry that I’ve found the most musical and inspiring.

It’s made me start writing and enjoying poetry more intentionally. This year, I was named poet laureate of my small San Joaquin rural town.

Now as a member of Oakland PEN, I can say, yes, I have written poetry and essays, but not a novel. One man shows I’ve written, so I have my own sub-group. My acronym: Oakland PEOMS.

Reed’s most recent book of poetry, “Why the Black Hole Sings the Blues, Poems 2007-2020” is one of my favorites. One poem especially captures the emerging xenophobia of the day. I offer you the first stanza of “The Banishment.”

We don’t want you here
Your crops grow better than ours
We don’t want you here
You’re not one of our kind
We’ll drive you out
As thou you were never here
Your names, family, and history
We’ll make them all disappear.

There’s more. But that stanza captures the anxiety many of us feel from the threat of mass deportations. The poem was written more than four years ago during the first Trump administration.

We’ve lived through all this before. And survived.

The news sometimes lulls us into acquiescence, but poetry strikes at the heart and forces us to see and feel more clearly.

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Emil Guillermo is a journalist and commentator. Join him at www.patreon.com/emilamok

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