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By Marquesa LaDawn
NNPA Columnist

 

Yes, I miss The Real Housewives of Atlanta, but I getting my fix with Kandi’s spinoff show.

Kandi is almost perfect until you get her around her family (The Tuckers, Moma Joyce and gang, plus the assistants) all headed on a “ski trip.” I hate to say this folks, but most Black folks do not ski. Anyway, it’s less about the skiing and more about the family dynamics.

I love that Kandi called it first on her Bravo blog by saying, “watching my family on the ski trip, reminds me of the Beverly Hillbillies.” The aunties expressed dismay with a lot of things, especially the sleeping quarters. I have to agree that expecting folks of that age to walk far is not realistic, but it did not stop there – they had to share all frustrations. This included Kandi being a bit absent from their lives. Really? She is a newlywed with a new stepdaughter and grieving husband added to an already busy life. Did they forget that she was humiliated by her own mother’s behavior towards her marriage and the aunts did not help? I have to give it to Kandi for handling the situation with class. Yes she tends to sweep things under the rug, but she just apologized and kept it moving. I have a feeling disagreements will not end as smoothly in the next episode.

Meanwhile, The Real Housewives of New York prompted a question: Why is it that brilliant, almost perfect, business women struggle so much in personal relationships? This seems to be a trend, really. (In the interest of full disclosure, I also struggle in this area. And like B, I’m working on it). B started this episode not being very tolerant. To be brutally honest, some folks have weird things that they do that you just have to comment on. Heather, loves to use urban terms like “hola” and “mama” for her friends, and the list goes on. And when you anger her, she becomes a thug girl.

Even so, it seems to go against her look and lifestyle. This makes it tempting for folks like B and others to make fun of her. It doesn’t bother Heather because she’s secure and knows it gives her “flava”! Back to B, she’s not feeling Heather or any of the newer housewives. She’s very direct about letting them know that they must earnher trust. Some may say this seems a bit mean, but if you look at her childhood and on-air therapy sessions, she acknowledges that she’s messed up. It was nice to see her talk things through with her stepfather, after 20-plus years of zero communication. She wants her daughter to experience a total family from her side. In spite of her big issues, she’s still Skinny Girl Perfect.

This episode showed the ladies at a boxing match and it was weird seeing perfectly coiffed ladies getting sweat all over them. It’s always interesting to see how these relationships evolve. It looks like Luann and Carole will not be great friends anytime soon. We all know it’s because of Carole’s relationship with Luann’s nieces ex-boyfriend that happens to be at least 30 years younger. Looking forward to next week when they really talk this out!

 

My new favorite Queens of Drama

I’m so hurt that my girl, Vanessa Marcil (from General Hospital and Beverly Hills 90210), lost it. I guess I believed her perfect character on GH when, in fact, she’s more like her flawed character from BH 90210. She’s easily irritated and throws tantrums at the drop of a dime. She finally lost it in the week’s episode and ran away. I’m praying for you girl! On another note, Donna Mills had to come down a few notches from the Abby Ewing ladder. She did not want Vanessa to know she was needed to keep the project. I think she’s a little scared that the network will not go for her replacing Vanessa. We will see.

 

The Braxton’s are back and its saucier than ever…

I was curious to see if Tamar would behave better now that she has a new talk show. It’s too soon to tell, but I see the sisters are accepting one another’s flaws and choosing to move on. The perfect marriage is anything but… Trina, is getting divorced for the third time. It looks like a battle between her and her ex will color most of this season. We are in for some interesting Fireworks!!

 

A quick word on Blood, Sex and Heels…

 My girl Mia, so perfectly tall, is not ready to be alone. She started dating a guy she considers boring. But, I’m happy with her this season because of her support for Daisy as she deals with cancer.

 

 

 

Marquesa LaDawn is a professional businesswoman who escapes the pressures of living in New York City by retreating into the real world of reality TV. Follow me on twitter @realityshowgirl and subscribe to her podcast at www.RealitytvGirl.com.

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In ‘Affrilachia: Testimonies,’ Puts Blacks in Appalacia on the Map

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Author Chris Aluka. Photo courtesy of Chris Aluka.
Author Chris Aluka. Photo courtesy of Chris Aluka.

By Terri Schlichenmeyer
The Bookworm Sez

An average oak tree is bigger around than two people together can reach.

That mighty tree starts out with an acorn the size of a nickel, ultimately growing to some 80 feet tall, with a canopy of a hundred feet or more across.

And like the new book, “Affrilachia” by Chris Aluka Berry (with Kelly Elaine Navies and Maia A. Surdam), its roots spread wide and wider.

Affriclachia is a term a Kentucky poet coined in the 1990s referring to the Black communities in Appalachia who are similarly referred to as Affrilachians.

In 2016, “on a foggy Sunday morning in March,” Berry visited Affrilachia for the first time by going the Mount Zion AME Zion Church in Cullowhee, North Carolina. The congregation was tiny; just a handful of people were there that day, but a pair of siblings stood out to him.

According to Berry, Ann Rogers and Mae Louise Allen lived on opposite sides of town, and neither had a driver’s license. He surmised that church was the only time the elderly sisters were together then, but their devotion to one another was clear.

As the service ended, he asked Allen if he could visit her. Was she willing to talk about her life in the Appalachians, her parents, her town?

She was, and arrangements were made, but before Barry could get back to Cullowhee, he learned that Allen had died. Saddened, he wondered how many stories are lost each day in mountain communities where African Americans have lived for more than a century.

“I couldn’t make photographs of the past,” he says, “but I could document the people and places living now.”

In doing so he also offers photographs that he collected from people he met in ‘Affrilachia,’ in North Carolina, Georgia, Kentucky, and Tennessee, at a rustic “camp” that was likely created by enslaved people, at churches, and in modest houses along highways.

The people he interviewed recalled family tales and community stories of support, hardship, and home.

Says coauthor Navies, “These images shout without making a sound.”

If it’s true what they say about a picture being worth 1,000 words, then “Affrilachia,” as packed with photos as it is, is worth a million.

With that in mind, there’s not a lot of narrative inside this book, just a few poems, a small number of very brief interviews, a handful of memories passed down, and some background stories from author Berry and his co-authors. The tales are interesting but scant.

For most readers, though, that lack of narrative isn’t going to matter much. The photographs are the reason why you’d have this book.

Here are pictures of life as it was 50 years or a century ago: group photos, pictures taken of proud moments, worn pews, and happy children. Some of the modern pictures may make you wonder why they’re included, but they set a tone and tell a tale.

This is the kind of book you’ll take off the shelf, and notice something different every time you do. “Affrilachia” doesn’t contain a lot of words, but it’s a good choice when it’s time to branch out in your reading.

“Affrilachia: Testimonies,” by Chris Aluka Berry with Kelly Elaine Navies and Maia A. Surdam

c.2024, University of Kentucky Press, $50.00.

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Promise Marks Performs Songs of Etta James in One-Woman Show, “A Sunday Kind of Love” at the Black Repertory Theater in Berkeley

“The (show) is a fictional story about a character named Etta, aka Lady Peaches,” said Marks. “She falls in love with Johnny Rhythm, leader of the Rhythm Players Band and headliners of Madam G’s Glitta Lounge.” Marks channeled the essence of Etta James, singing favorites such as “Sugar on the Floor” and “At Last.”

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It was “A Sunday Kind of Love” at the Black Repertory Group Theater in Berkeley on Saturday night, Dec. 7. The one-woman musical based on the music of Etta James featured the multi-talented singer Promise Marks

Marks, who wrote and directed the musical, also owns PM Productions.

“The (show) is a fictional story about a character named Etta, aka Lady Peaches,” said Marks. “She falls in love with Johnny Rhythm, leader of the Rhythm Players Band and headliners of Madam G’s Glitta Lounge.”

Marks channeled the essence of Etta James, singing favorites such as “Sugar on the Floor” and “At Last.”

In between her soulful songs, Marks narrated impactful moments of the love story and journey of blues and forgiveness.

Marks sultry voice carried the audience back to an era that echoed with the power of Black music and a time of great change.

Marks said James shared love for the Black community by singing at gatherings during the Civil Rights Movement uplifting the people.

“She spoke to the movement, spoke to the people, and let her music speak for itself,” Marks said.

Backing the musical’s monologues, images and videos of Etta James are projected for the audience to view. While the production is fictional, Marks infused script with the unfairness and heartbreak James experienced while performing.

Marks performed gospel artist Donnie McClurkin’s “We Fall Down” as she narrated acts of reconciliation and forgiveness among the characters at Johnny Rhythm’s deathbed.

Marks, who regularly sings for the Miss America Pageant, was asked to perform as Etta James last year. “(At the event) a lady yelled out to me: ‘You’re Etta James!’ And then the audience went crazy. I said to myself, ‘I may have something here,’” she said.

Within 12 months, Marks created the musical production, which featured a dozen songs honoring “the great legacy of Etta James,” she said.

Marks says she was saddened to see how Etta James was often judged by the struggles in her life and wanted to offer attendees a more layered view.

“Etta’s life was so big. I want people to know that she was more than her drug addiction,” said Marks. “We can’t make that her legacy. Her catalog is too amazing. You can’t just be that and have the catalog that she (created). I don’t want the addiction to be the focus: I want her music, her element, her sassiness, and what she brought to be the focus – her woman-ness, that she was strong, and I wanted to honor that.”

Set Designer Nora Burnette says she created the set segments to mirror James’ life story. A set designer for BRG since 2016, she explained that her process of researching the scenario and the character serve as her inspiration for her design.

“I try to design a set as close to real life as possible so that the actress can deliver the performance sincerely,” said Burnette. “By creating the right setting, it helps the actors release the true essence of a character.”

The set brought the story to life and absolutely floored Marks. “Once Promise (Marks) saw the actual set, she understood my vision: ‘Wow, you get me. You get it,'” Marks told the designer.

Born Jamesetta Hawkins, Etta James, began her career in 1954 and gained fame with hits such “At Last” and “I’d Rather Go Blind.” She faced a number of personal problems, before making a musical comeback in the late 1980s with the album “Seven Year Itch.”

Co-producer and BRG Development Director, Sean Vaughn Scott, works with Overseer Production. According to producer Pamela Spikes, “Marks talent truly does Etta’s life story justice.”

Pam Jacobs of Hercules, a friend of Marks’ mom, Jackie Smith, said, Marks “was fabulous and sang all of those songs flawlessly.”

“I’m so proud of my daughter,” said Smith.

Marks, who has served as an instructor for BRG, will return on Feb. 21- 23 for an encore run of the musical.

“It’s an honor to be a part of the BRG (Black Repertory Group) family and continue our executive director Dr. Mona Vaughn Scott’s vision for the Black Repertory Group theater,” said Marks.

The Black Repertory Group Theatre is located at 3201 Adeline St., Berkeley, CA 94703. For information, visit: BlackRepertoryGroup.com

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